I think the Lord wants you outside planting flowers around your tower and between the walls.
But people will come and step on them and bend my trees and crush my bushes she bewailed.
What's more fun, planting flowers or staying in your tower?
Yes, you will be hurt by other actions, watching them crush flowers hurts, but you can plant more and you can teach them how to help you plant more. Letting them see your sadness will allow them to see the impact, and they will be more willing to learn how to care for you.